December 22, 2009
WE MADE IT!!
We also had a wonderful friend who conveniently had the same flight as us and helped us carry our bags and little girl through the airport. It made it soooo much easier!! THANKS MARIA!!!
Now we only hope that things go as well when we go home!
If we don't get to blog again before Christmas, MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!
December 9, 2009
White Dresses
November 14, 2009
Hypothetical
So we've made it almost two full weeks...at home!! YAY!! We are learning to get into the swing of things. Some days I'm a bit tired and frustrated because I can't get things that I want to get done done. But other than that not too bad. The diapers aren't as bad as I thought they would be. (For those of you who don't know, I don't do diapers. I used to pay my sister a dollar a diaper when she came with me to babysit my brother's kids. That's saying something when you only got paid $3.00 for the entire evening. cheep labor. )
Okay, so we've been getting our insurance explanation of benefits for our hospital bills...which first, I must say thank heavens for insurance, but I noticed that before insurance an epidural cost nearly a thousand dollars! I started wondering to myself, because I can be too practical sometimes, if I didn't have insurance would I pay $1,000 for an epidural. Then I started to be curious what others would do in this hypothetical situation, would you pay $1,000 for an epidural?
I think that I probably would. Even if I had convinced myself to try without, I would inevitably give in and get one...I'm afraid I can't tolerate pain.
Hope you are all doing well!!
November 4, 2009
We're Home!
I really can't complain too much however because she has done well at night. She's only waken up around 4:00 each morning to eat and has gone back to sleep. I just need to get her to stick to it and maybe figure out how to deal with her fickle morning schedule.
November 1, 2009
My Little Girl
We are basically just here until they give her the last dose of antibiotics tomorrow. They've taken her of oxygen and the glucose (I'm not exactly sure why they were giving it to her anyway.) So it feels like it is pointless to be here for them just to administer antibiotics but what can you do?
As nice as it would have been to have gone home Wednesday had all been normal, it's been a blessing to be here. It's given us a nice transition to parenthood. We've been able to learn from the nurses (although at times frustrating) how to take care of our baby. Its been nice to go home at night and sleep most of the night except for waking to pump. I'm still nervous about caring for her on our own but more confident about bringing her home. Here are some pictures of Little Girl during her first week. (They go most recent to when she was first born.)
October 27, 2009
Announcing Our Little Girl Haines
She measured in at 9lbs 9oz and 22 inches! We are both smitten with her and love her very much.
October 15, 2009
Maternity Leave
I went to Walmart and the check out lady said, "My you are carrying your baby high! It's a girl huh? You're going to be carrying her awhile longer!" All I have to say is thanks.
So I'm just kinda bumming around, trying to stay productive but what am I supposed to do all day? I'm not used to having this much free time. I pretty much have always gone to school or worked. People tell me I should enjoy this time because I will never have time like this again. So far I am enjoying it but just unsure on how use it all up. Yesterday I went shopping but I decided I shouldn't do that with my free time it will very quickly eat up our bank account. I bought a set of lamps for our living room, a decorative clock which I'm not sure where I'm going to put, new cookie sheets and a few other random items. We won't expose the grand total because I'm not necessarily proud of it.
Anyway, I'll keep you posted but according the walmart lady I'll be like this for awhile.
Take care friends!
October 12, 2009
39 Weeks
Well, as you remember from the last post, I wasn't supposed to make it to 39 weeks but here I am with baby girl still in my tummy at 39 weeks:
I've been working very hard trying to get things ready for her. My apartment isn't perfectly organized or decorated yet but it is sufficent. I have most everything I think I need for her to come....so why isn't she coming???
I seriously thought I'd have this baby this last weekend....but nothing! All of the sudden I'm starting to realize the distinct possibility that I could go over my due date! That thought had never crossed my mind but now that I'm only one week away (and heard one too many stories at church yesterday) I guess I'd better settle in for another two weeks at least. OYE! Good luck to those who have to be around me! I'm not forseeing a happy Alissa.
September 23, 2009
Should I be worrying??
September 15, 2009
THE DUE DATE...too far and yet entirely too soon
I WANT HER OUT!
- I'm tired of waiting and facing the unknown.
- I want to know what she looks like.
- I want to adorn her in cute shoes, clothes and bows.
- I want to hold her and make her laugh.
- I'm tired of her kicking my ribs and creating back pain.
- I want my body back!! I want to run, eat and play. Roller skating is definitely on my list of things to do once I'm able. I want to go shopping again for cute, clothes and pair of sexy jeans. (oh my!) And cute shoes...I miss my shoes! I know my feet don't look it to those who don't know my feet because they were so skinny and skeleton like before but they are swollen and I swear are a size 10 now!
- I'm terrified of having a baby. LABOR!! YIKES!! I know there's the epidural but things can go wrong. Someone that works in mydepartment had their baby last week, 30 hours!!!! two failed epidurals and a spinal tap. And episiotomies, oye! And will I be able to get a hold of Victory? He's so stinking busy right now I'm afraid he'll be away at a football game and I'll be delivering her all alone.
- We are completely unprepared for her! We aren't moving to our two bedroom apartment until September 29th. So we've put off buying anything for because we have no where to put it right now (except a few clothes...and a crib and bedding being stored at my parents house). I'm hoping to go buy a car seat soon so if she does comes early we can at least take her home.
- What am I going to do with her once she's out? What am I going to do when she cries all night long? How do I get her on a eating/sleeping schedule?
- Not sure how to make things work financially with me working possibly only part time or not at all and the increase in insurance? how do people make it these days?
- I'm going to miss the movement of my little girl in my tummy. It's kinda fun to feel her there.
Well, you're guess is as good as mine as when she'll come out but I thought it would be fun to get your input. Her due date is October 19th and my maternity leave starts October 14th.... when do you think she'll come?
Also, we've been keeping her name to ourselves because we were afraid of negative feedback, however I'm not so sure about that name anymore. And just so we don't go to the hospital without any back ups do you have any name suggestions? Hope you come up with some good names...by the way Victory likes common but not popular names. :)
Can't wait for your feedback!!
August 19, 2009
Mr. Haines
I'm kinda sad that school is starting. It's the realization that I won't see him much anymore. He won't be home during lunch time and he won't be home when I get home from work. He's going to be a very busy man. He'll leave before seven and won't get home until after seven. He'll have football games Monday and Friday night and film review Saturday mornings. Then he'll probably still have school stuff to do. :( It's a sad realization that we are growing up. I like being the young married couple with out too many responsibilities.
July 28, 2009
Expectant Mother
Hope you enjoy looking at the fat girl...uh... I mean pregnant girl! :)
June 17, 2009
MmmMMmm Goodness!!
I was still dreaming of brownies so the next day I went to the store to buy ingredients to make my own brownie goodness. I loved them! Maybe because I'm pregnant they tasted 10x better but mmmhhmmm good.
I made a pan of fudge brownies. After the were done baking, I pressed Rolos into them on one half of the pan and peanut butter cups on the other half of the pan. I put them in the oven for a minute to help them melt. I lightly spread the melted chocolate across the brownies. SOO GOOD! Especially after their cool. They definitely didn't have the visual presentation that her brownie cups had but they were GOOD! mmmm. The pan of brownies are gone now and I'm left to only dream of them again in the near future. :)
June 11, 2009
It's no longer an It!


We are excited to finally know what flavor our baby is going to be...it just time for us to decide on a name!
June 5, 2009
Boy or Girl???

Until then...
May 27, 2009
May 21, 2009
YAY!!!
I don't know how many American Idol fans I have as friends and I don't know how many of you were voting for Kris but I'm sooooo EXCITED that HE WON!!!!!
I don't usually vote but I did seven times!! Would Adam have made the best music star? Probably, but I really did not enjoy Adam's screaming and the creepy way he performed. He often choose songs that didn't make me feel happy or reflective and thats way I listen to music. I know Adam will still go far in the music industry and probably further than Kris but I'm so excited that America voted for Kris to be America's idol. He's been so humble about his talent and even about winning. WAY TO GO AMERICA!!!
May 14, 2009
5) Friends
5)Sorted Wedding pictures



6) A rootbear float....mmmm that sounds lovely... oooo monster cookies or chocolate chip cookies!
8) A new pair of tennis shoes to encourage obtaining an attractive pregnant body.
April 27, 2009
Little Secrets...
April 23, 2009
Little Secrets....
March 12, 2009
Temples
Enjoy.
February 27, 2009
1 year
It was a Saturday afternoon, and at the time I was still working Saturdays at Younkers. Each shoe associate was going to be receiving a free pair of crocs that they would then have to wear to work during the croc sale, in order to promote them. So, I was there trying on crocs to decide on a size that would fit me best since my long toe stuck out the stupid hole in the front. I was so completely distracted by the stupid shoes I didn't realize that my manager was there (who was not working) and a few others who just happened to be hanging around the shoe dept. I was still debating and adequately complaining about the stupid crocs when our friends Aaron and Whitney came along.
I started talking to them for few minutes and then I started to realize there were quite a few people in the shoe department and that I probably should get back to work. I was about to leave to help other customers when Whitney, said she wanted to try on a shoe. She showed me the shoe, and I said, "Hey, the style of that shoe is named "Victory!" So I went to the stockroom to retreive the shoe and while I was back there I opened the box to make sure I got the right color and size, well, inside the shoe box was a ring box. I thought to myself, "stupid customers". You can find the most random things in shoe boxes. I opened the box and saw the ring (still thinking it was costume jewlery). I walked out of the stockroom and turned to my co-workers and said, "Hey look what I found! And just as I did so, Victory Haines, dressed in a suit and carrying a bouquet of flowers came around the corner and took the ring from me and said, "that's mine" and got down on one knee and asked to spend eternity with me. I obviously said yes and as I did so everyone in the huge crowd that had gathered began clapping. And we are living happily ever after!
February 18, 2009
Proud Aunt of 41!!
But yesterday, as I shared the news of my sister having her baby with my coworkers, it finally dawned on me, I'm now an aunt of 41 neices and nephews (36 from the Randalls and 5 from the Haines side)! That is truly amazing, especially at the age of 25 and gosh darn it, it should be something I'm proud of because I truly am! I love all of my neices and nephews and they make me soooo happy!
So GOSH DARN IT!! I'm Proud of my HUGE family! I wouldn't ever wish to be a part of a different family! NEVER!
What is that smell??
Last night I made cookies, really yummy ones, and I put a batch in before I left for a visiting teaching appointment. I asked Victory to take them out in 10 minutes. I left in good faith that he would finish up with cookies while I was gone. I get home about an hour later and walk in the door and say, "Victory, what is that smell?" He tilts his head to the side a bit and sniffs, instantly it registered, "COOKIES!" The cookies were FRIED!! BLGHH! They were completly black all the way through and our poor house smelled HORRIBLE!
I was just amazed that he couldn't smell that overwhelming burnt smell. When I asked him why he couldn't smell it, he said, "I thought I smelled something but it just didn't register."
What a silly boy but I sure do love him!
After our cookie episode, Victory left to go play basketball. 15 minutes after the game started I got a phone call. I knew that couldn't be good. Turns out that he got elbowed in the mouth by his teammate and had to go get stitches. It was a 2 1/2 cm cut on the right side of his mouth. He'll be fine, he'll get the stitches out on Saturday. I feel kinda sorry for him, he was having kind of a rough night.
February 11, 2009
January 28, 2009
rAndOm
Rules
1- Post the rules on your blog
2- List 6 random things about yourself.
3- Tag 6 people at the end of your post.
4- Let each person know they have been tagged and leave a comment on their blog.
5- Let the tagger know when your entry is up.
Here we go......
1. I squeeze the toothpaste from the middle and often fail to put the cap back on... sorry Victory.
2. I like to conserve my food so that I will have left overs not only to save money but so I don't have to worry about what to eat the next day. However, now that I'm married this seems to rarely happen.
3. I love the Trident Tropical Twist gum as well as the Extra's strawberry Bannana gum. And when I was in college I would chew an entire pack in preparation for my Cognitive Development tests. INTENSE!
4. I've been told I'm a crazy driver... I don't think I'm so bad. I'm just not so good in unfamiliar places....on my first driving test for my driver's license I got 39 points, you can only have up to 15 points and still receive your license. I ran a red light during the test and automatically failed right there. Once again, that was a completly unfamiliar side of town.
5. I love the t.v. show Friends. It's on at 5:00 and 5:30, if I miss those they replay them at 9:00 and 9:30. For better or worse, I think I most resemble Monica. I've even taken up talking like her. I KNOW!!!
6. I love school supplies! Markers, pens, crayons, post it notes, glue sticks! I love Back to School shopping! Even though I don't have a lot of use for these supplies currenly I still buy them.
YAY! I did it! have fun!
January 10, 2009
Merry Christmas!!!
Everything I need to be a Princess, including the Prince!!
Lauren learning to be a princess. Cute girl!
Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas too!
January 8, 2009
Happy New Year's!!
Victory and I then headed to the blockbuster downtown to see if we could find a Doris Day movie to watch. And just so you know, the only blockbuster in town that is supposed to have old movies, doesn't even have one Doris Day movie. We ended up watching a Kerry Grant movie, "War Bride". Funny.
We still had an hour or so to kill so we played Guestures. All I can say is, "Wow!" The two times my family has played that game in the last year, my dad has been the star of the show. It's quite hilarious to watch him frantically act out the words. The last time we played, one of the words was fire hydrant. What did my dad do? He lifted up his leg like a dog. Hilarious. This year, it was hurdles. That was so funny that Stephanie went into a laughing fit-to the point we were afraid she would go into pre-term labor.
And for the crowning event of the evening, my dad and Jeff did a balloon drop. They used the holes in the walls from our wedding to string a huge bag of balloons. It was an awesome New Year’s Eve.

Ice Skating!!

And if you observe that I'm looking a little chunky in the picture it's only becasue I have several layers on top, Victory's under armor (which wasn't terribly too big), t-shirt, a hoody and then my coat and scarf . I also have three layers on the bottom as well, a pair of long johns, sweat pants and then my jeans. I can't quite remember, I may even have three pairs of socks on to. I like to stay warm what can I say? And I did, all except my face. By the time we finished ice skating my face was frozen and I could barely move my mouth to speak.


